
Behind our calm faces live silent battles, hidden wounds, and stubborn hope—proof that even the most unseen souls still rise.

15 Mar, 2026
Behind our smiles, a quiet war rages. Tears learned to fall without sound, pain mastered the art of hiding, and strength was forged where no one clapped. We have known discouragement, yet surrender never learned our name. We have been broken, yes, but never erased.
Life shook us hard and stripped the ground beneath our feet, but it never shook our hope, never starved our hunger to rise. Not once. Not ever.
Very many of us are lonely even when we are surrounded by people. We stand in the rain like everyone else, yet somehow, we personally remain dry inside. As everyone is getting soaked by something—joy, hunger, stress—you feel nothing reaches you anymore: not joy, not comfort, not even pain strong enough to make someone stop and ask whether you are okay.
The hardest part of it all is that no one gets to ask the right questions, because on the outside, nothing looks broken. Our smiles are wide, our phones still ring, and we still show up. Some people assume we are okay, and that very assumption is how people begin to disappear even when still alive—not very suddenly, but slowly.
This is the most impressive emptiness anyone can fall into, because no one is immune to it. So, if we look fine to you, do not trust the surface. Move closer, because even calm water can still hide a drowning person.
Some people denied us chances; some even blocked opportunities against us. Perhaps in their eyes, our existence was never worth consideration. They saw potential in us and instead called it a threat. Imagine someone else’s humble progress becoming another person’s fear, when simply becoming better off offends others.
But it is okay. The page will turn. A time will come when they will realise they lost good and genuine people in us by denying us that access. Life will make them meet that truth one day: that some people are never blocked; they are redirected.
You may change the direction of another person’s journey, but you will never block their destiny. You can delay it, but you can never deny it, because what God has appointed for greatness is beyond the hand of man. And one day, the version of us they once called a nobody will rise as a lesson of that revelation.
Let us love our people while we still can, while they are still here. We always think we have more time, but life does not promise that. In human love, later is never promised.
So let us make the calls now, say the words, appreciate them, and show the love we keep postponing today. Because if not now, then one day we will wish we had one more chance when time is gone.
My name is Abeson Alex, a student at St. Lawrence University, whose leadership journey reflects a deep commitment to service, integrity, and community transformation. I have held various leadership positions, including UNSA President of St. Charles Lwanga College Koboko, UNSA District Executive Council Speaker, UNSA Speaker for West Nile, and West Nile Representative to the UNSA National Executive Council. I also served as YCS Section Leader of St. Charles Lwanga College Koboko, YCS Federation Leader for Koboko District, and Koboko YCS Coordinator to the Diocese. In addition, I was a Peace Founder and Security Council Speaker for the peace agreement between St. Charles Lwanga College Koboko and Koboko Town College. I served as Debate Club Chairperson of St. Charles Lwanga College Koboko, District Debate Coordinator, and West Nile Debate Coordinator to the National Debate Council (NDC). All the above were in 2022-2023. My other leadership roles include Chairperson of the Writers and Readers Club, UNSA Representative in the District Youth Council, Students’ Advocate for Reproductive Health, and Students’ GBV Advocate for the District. Within the Church, I served as Chairperson of the Altarservers of Ombaci Chapel, Parish Altarservers Chairperson of Koboko Parish, and Speaker of the Altarservers Ministry in Arua Diocese. Current Positions: Currently, I serve as the Diocesan Altarservers Chairperson of Arua Catholic Diocese, Advisor of the Altarservers Ministry for both Ombaci Chapel and Koboko Parish, and Programs Coordinator of Destined Youth of Christ (DYC-UG). I am also a Finalist in the Global Unites Oratory Competition 2024, the current Debate Club Speaker and President of St. Lawrence University Koboko Students Association. Additionally, I am the Youth Chairperson of Lombe Village, Midia Parish, and Midia Sub-county in koboko district. I am one whose life has been revolving around ensuring that in our imperfections as humans, we can promote transparency, righteousness, and morality to attain perfection. I am inspired by the guiding words: Mobilization, Influence, Engagement, and Advocacy. I share my inspiration across the fields of Relationships, Career, Governance, Faith, Education, Spirituality, Anti-corruption, Environmental Conservation, Business & Self-Reliance, politics , Administration,Financial Literacy, Religion, and Human Rights. Thanks for the encounter.